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LifeManagement Center, Inc.
Vol. 7• Issue 2

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InFocus - Fall, 2003

LifeManagement Center’s 8th Annual Southeastern Conference featuring Rick Lavoie
Monday, November 10, 2003

Rick Lavoie

LifeManagement Center is pleased to bring Rick Lavoie, M.A., M.Ed. and his message of “information and inspiration” to Charleston this fall. Former First Lady Barbara Bush stated, “I only wish that every parent and teacher in the United States today could also see your program.” And, if you attend LifeManagement Center’s Eighth Annual Southeastern Conference, you are one of those who can!

Join fellow teachers, parents, physicians and counselors at the Citadel’s Holliday Alumni Center on November 10 to hear why classroom competition, punishment and “time-outs” often don’t work...and learn alternatives that do! Find out how to effectively deal with conflict at home and at school and learn the importance of the “hidden curriculum” of social skills. Mr. Lavoie’s message is as valuable to those who deal with regular education as it is to those who teach and parent special needs and special education children.

Mr. Lavoie has served as an administrator of boarding schools for children with special needs since 1972. He holds three degrees in special education and has served as an adjunct professor or lecturer at numerous universities including Syracuse, Harvard and Rutgers. His national television appearances include the CBS Morning Show, Good Morning America, ABC Evening News and The Disney Channel.

In this year alone, Mr. Lavoie’s universal message of information and inspiration will be delivered to audiences in Hawaii, Canada, Australia and cities all over the continental United States. Please join us for this special educational opportunity. Your registration form is available in this newsletter, at LifeManagement Center offices at 90 Alexander Street or on the web at www.lifemanagement.org.

Topics that will be covered in the November 10 workshop include:

• The Key to Effective Behavior Management
• Batteries Not Included: Motivating the Reluctant Learner
• A Dozen Strategies that Don't Work with Learning Disabled Kids — and a Dozen that Do

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Fall Tutoring at LifeManagement Center!

Individualized Tutoring for all ages and all subjects Mondays & Wednesdays, 3-8 p.m. and Tuesdays & Thursdays, 3 p.m -7 p.m. We have new extended hours to accommodate our older students.

Intensive Reading Reinforcement is designed for the student who is having difficulty with decoding and reading fluency. This program provides a stepby- step phonics-based approach while incorporating all of the techniques necessary to increase reading skills and reading confidence.

MANY ADULTS
(maybe even YOU)
COULD BENEFIT FROM LMC’s COACHING SERVICES!

Do you have difficulty in any of the following areas?
• Staying focused
• Getting organized
• Meeting goals
• Maintaining self-discipline
• Managing time
• Establishing priorities

Schedule a consultation to find out if our Coaching Program is right for you! 843-577-2277

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EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR’S REPORT

Saida Huey, MSW, Executive DirectorWith all of the work that LifeManagement Center does with children, some of our supporters may not know that we offer important services for adults with ADHD as well. Adult ADHD is an extremely under-diagnosed condition and may be masked by the presence of other coexisting emotional and/or physical conditions. Surprisingly,we have found that a diagnosis of ADHD for our adult clients is often met with a very positive response. “So THAT is what has been wrong all of these years,” they say, “and all this time I just thought I couldn’t learn!”

In this issue of InFocus, LMC’s Director of Programs, Mary Beth Dacey, offers ten tips for Adults with ADHD. We are also pleased to share with you the personal story of Dr. Bill Davis, who writes of the positive changes he has experienced since his diagnosis and subsequent treatment of ADHD.

Adult ADHD is something that parents may wish to begin to learn about. Current research reveals that only 40% of children with ADHD will “grow out of” their symptoms. It may be wise for parents to consider strategies for helping their children transition from “management by mom, dad and school” to self-management as they spread their wings and prepare to enter the world.

If you know a child or an adult who may be suffering from undiagnosed ADHD, please share our newsletter or suggest a visit to our website, www.lifemanagement.org, where helpful information and resources can be found. Thank you for your continuing support of LifeManagement Center. Please know that we are here to support you.

Saida Huey, MSW, Executive Director


EDUCATIONAL EVALUATIONS

Dr. Ibis M. Glass, Educational Diagnostician and LifeManagement Center’s Coordinator of Client Services, offers Educational Evaluations for children and young adults. The evaluation process is a comprehensive assessment of achievement and overall intellectual ability. Additionally, the battery provides an assessment of visual and auditory processing, academic skills such as reading, written expression and mathematics as well as overall language abilities and attention.

A Consultation is the first step in the Testing process.

 

Ten Tips for Adults with ADHD
by Mary Beth Dacey, MAT

1. Make sure you have a proper diagnosis and check for coexisting conditions. Then educate yourself and your family about what ADHD is or isn’t.

2. Get help to design and implement a multi-modal treatment plan that may include medication, counseling and coaching.

3. Work with a coach to set a goal > plan > do > review. Prioritize rather than procrastinate.

4. Look for a career that challenges your strengths not one that accentuates your weaknesses. Do what you’re good at.

5. When it comes to paperwork, use the OHIO principle – “Only Handle It Once”.

6. Delegate jobs that are too tedious for you to a partner or friend in exchange for something that you can give or do for them.

7. Seek counseling when things aren’t going well or during stressful times and transitions.

8. Get on a good exercise program – stick with it.

9. Learn to use a day planner, keep it with you, and refer to it frequently. Plan your work and work the plan.

10. Keep it in perspective and keep a sense of humor.

Tribute to Priscilla Vail

All of us with LifeManagement Center were sad to learn of the passing of National Advisory Board member and longtime friend, Priscilla Vail, MAT. Priscilla was the speaker for LMC’s second annual conference, co-sponsored with Ashley Hall. Priscilla died in July and she will be missed by her friends and admirers here in Charleston.

LMC Welcomes
Dr. Russell A. Barkley to National Advisory Board


LifeManagement Center is pleased to announce Dr. Russell Barkley as the newest addition to its National Advisory Board. Dr. Barkley has recently joined MUSC’s College of Health Professions as a professor in the Research Department. In a highly anticipated and very successful 2002 LMC conference, Dr. Barkley shared his theoretical framework for understanding ADHD with parents, teachers, psychologists and medical practitioners, providing tremendous insight into the nature of the disorder and treatment planning. Dr. Barkley joins the equally notable Dr. Edward Hallowell and Dr. Robert Brooks on our National Advisory Board.

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“ADHD—Impact in the Classroom”
FREE WORKSHOP For Berkeley, Charleston, and Dorchester County Public Schools

Would you as a teacher or administrator like to know more about ADHD? Is it real? Is it treatable? Is it the result of poor parenting or poor teaching? Or is it a neurobiological disorder that has a profound effect on a person’s life? Would you like to know how to handle ADHD students in your classroom?

This workshop, offered by LifeManagement Center,will answer all of those questions and more. The workshop is user-friendly, designed for in-service teacher education, filled with information and strategies, and time for questions and answers. It has been presented to 39 schools and over 1,500 teachers, guidance counselors and administrators. The evaluations of past participants are outstanding with many positive comments, such as:

“You gave us valuable information and insights about the ADHD students, and I trust we will use it to help them be more successful. Thank you for a professional and informative session.”
— Middle School Principal

“Thank you! You have opened my eyes, ears, and mind! Such great suggestions!”
— Middle School Teacher

“The presentation was effective and addressed the topic thoroughly and concisely. All teachers should hear this presentation.”
— Guidance Counselor

“Thank you for presenting this information to the ‘regular education’ teachers. This is an issue, we, as special education teachers are working on to make even better.”
— Resource Teacher

“Thank you – very helpful. You are one of the few speakers who gave us actual methods for applying the information you provide in the classroom. This was extremely refreshing!”
— Lower School Teacher

“Excellent program! Great examples used and easy to understand!”
— Lower School Principal

Thanks to the support of the Community Foundation Serving Coastal SC, the Wachovia Corporation, and the Zucker Family, this workshop could come to your school. For more information or to schedule the workshop call Mary Beth Dacey at 843.577.2277.


THE TOPICS INCLUDE:

• What is ADHD?
• How is ADHD identified and diagnosed?
• Characteristics of the disorder with and without the hyperactivity.
• Accompanying co-morbid conditions.
• Common treatments.
• How ADHD exhibits itself throughout the lifespan.
• Impact of ADHD on school.
• How to get, increase, and maintain attention.
• Strategies for classroom management.
• Behavior management techniques.
• Academic strategies.

 

 

Support From Wachovia

Charles T. Cole (r), Regional President for Wachovia Corporation presents a $5,000 grant from Wachovia Foundation to Robert Kunes, President of LMC’s Board of Directors, in support of the Teach the Teachers Program.

Newsletter Coordinator: Paula Spedale
Newsletter Designer: Craig McLaughlin

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Rich Lavoie, M.A. M.Ed.
Monday, November 10, 2003

The Citadel Holliday Alumni Center, 69 Hagood Avenue, Charleston, SC
Free parking is available across the street in the stadium lot.

7:45a.m.-8:30a.m. Registration/Continental Breakfast
8:30a.m.-2:30p.m. Presentation by Rick Lavoie

Topics will include:

• The Key to Effective Behavior Management

• Batteries Not Included: Motivating the Reluctant Learner

• A Dozen Strategies that Don’t Work with Learning Disabled Kids — and a Dozen that Do


Fees

Individuals
Groups (20+)
Until September 30
$139
$99/person
October 1- November 10
$165
$139/person
Student Rate (with current ID; full-time students)
$50
 

Lunch is included in registration fee
No refunds will be issued after October 10, 2003.

Credits for: CAC, LISW, LPC, Ph.D. provided by Palmetto Lowcountry Behavioral Health. Certificate of attendance available for all registrants.

REGISTRATION for RICK LAVOIE CONFERENCE

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Please return this form with your payment to:
LifeManagement Center, 90 Alexander Street, Charleston, SC 29403
For further information call: 843-577.2277; Fax: 843-577.9888; email:lmcspedalep@aol.com
LifeManagement Center, Inc. is a non-profit 501 (c) (3) organization

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Adolescence: The Roller Coaster Ride to Self-Actualization
by Ibis Glass, Ed.D.

Few would argue that the steps an adolescent takes towards self-sufficiency lay the groundwork for successful adulthood. Middle school years are important because these years set the tone for the high stakes high school years. It would all be simple, if upon a twelfth birthday, all twelve year-olds would automatically organize their time, appreciate a planner and use it, study daily, turn in their tidy work on time and ask to be quizzed before a chapter test and, of course, ask for help from the teacher.

In this wonderful world of birthday-based readiness, middle school teachers and parents would smile, often. Ah, bliss!

Readiness
Unfortunately, readiness is a real concept and not all of our teens are READY to exhibit the type of responsible and mature behavior that identifies an independent learner. To add more thrills to the challenges of this stage, it seems that when parental guidance is most critical, it is the least welcomed.

The Struggle: Well Worth It!
Why do some students move through school with ease? At the risk of simplifying complex behavior, the concept of “good match” is an element in their success. It seems that these students are a good fit for the type of instruction that is prevalent in our schools.

They tend to have good auditory memories; they favor lecture-based formats and they focus well. Some have a great deal of drive, others not. They also have a lot of confidence in themselves as learners because they have not had to deal with poor performance and disappointing school outcomes.

Why do some students struggle? Well, for some it may be a poor match between the way they learn and remember and the way instruction is delivered, for some, it may be immaturity and disinterest and for others,it may be a mild learning disorder or a problem with attention. Teasing out which is which during adolescence is difficult, but with close observation and a strong level of school involvement, a direction usually is identified.

 

 

The Direction
Sometimes the solution to poor performance may involve schoolbased resources and at other times, outside skill training resources. The answer may lie in the exploration of study skills training, remediation of poor skills, short-term tutoring and the management of attention issues. The solution always involves a commitment to understanding and developing behavior that will ultimately lead to the ultimate—an independent, confident learner.

What Works?
Research is clear on what is critical to the independent learner’s operating mode, and that is, time-on-task, active reading, memorization techniques, organization and consistency.

Time-on-task: Nothing takes the place of adequate time to read, practice, rehearse and manipulate new material.

Active Reading: This type of reading involves understanding how to prioritize information and how to best manipulate it for study, storage and retrieval. That usually means working with the material in “chunks,” relating it to something meaningful, reformulating it, in addition to talking and thinking about it.

Memorization: Different techniques work for different types of materials,i.e. visualization for concepts, mnemonics for lists and rehearsal for ideas or a combination thereof.

Organization & Consistency: Organization of time and a consistent time and place to work, feed the process.

Finally, nothing is more powerful than parental involvement and nothing increases the likelihood of success better than a strong bond between parent and teen. The confident learner is the adaptable student, one who has the skills to gain, use and transform information, but these skills are not developed instantaneously. The skills have to be identified and practiced. But once these skills are acquired, in whatever imperfect fashion—it is a victory along the road to self-actualization.

A Comprehensive Plan for Managing ADHD and LD
“Living the Solution”

LifeManagement Center offers a Comprehensive Plan for managing the challenges of Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) and Learning Disabilities (LD). This plan is designed to help families construct and coordinate the optimum school and home management plan for the individual with ADHD or LD. LMC’s Educational Consultant, serving as “case manager,” incorporates information from a client’s teachers, doctors and other medical professionals to develop a plan of action and strategy with clear goals.

The focus of the plan is to provide ongoing direction for families with multi-faceted concerns.

What is Included in the Comprehensive Plan?
• Initial Consultation
• Implementation Plan
• Follow-up Consultations

Costs of your Comprehensive Plan will be based upon your individualized program.

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A Coach or Not a Coach…That Was My Question
by Bill Davis, M.D.

Let’s just say that I was over the age of sixty (by years, not months) when I first realized that I had ADHD.

When it was first suggested to me, I smiled and said …“Who Me?” Then I became inquisitive, read something in a book, consulted the internet and in less than a week, I was having a consultation at Life- Management Center, here in Charleston. After my consult and filling in a questionnaire, I began educating myself through reading, made an appointment with a physician recommended by LMC, and took prescribed medication, all the while feeling that I could handle this situation without a coach. WRONG!! After about five months passed, not much had changed and I decided to give coaching a try.

LifeManagement Center “came through” again, and matched me with one of their coaches. Introduced, we were chatting on the phone about three times a week. It wasn’t very long before I realized what a huge difference a coach meant to me.

Several specific things that changed during the next nine months as we talked and worked together were the following:

  • Time Management- and my gradual realization that it really is important for me to have a book for my daily schedule and to review it each day. Over time, I began to realize that I actually began saving time by doing so.
  • Becoming more self-aware regarding when I experienced a low energy level and realizing that a “time-out” was in order and that I needed to re-energize myself by indulging in one of my several interests- reading, music, photography, a walk on the beach, etc. I learned that I became rejuvenated- without fail.
  • Performing the best that I could with a task or problem and then letting it go, not worrying unnecessarily about the outcome as well as not worrying about things that were out of my control.
  • Learning to deal with overwhelming tasks by breaking them down and solving them piece-meal over a time frame rather than tackling the entire project all at once and consequently leaving it only partially completed, never to return to it.

These are just a few of the things that my coach and I dealt with that I feel have been very helpful to me.

A more general thing for me was the opportunity to just brainstorm many things that would come up from time to time; some related, others perhaps not directly related.

Finally, I feel extremely fortunate not only to have had a coach who was perceptive, understanding and extremely helpful to me, but also to have had one who I have come to consider a very good friend.

Call 577-2277 for Coaching information.

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